Romance

Are you ready for a relationship? I ask myself that question all the time. I'm going to keep it all the way real...I'm a ladies man. Ladies know it, my friends know it, and even my family know it. But me saying I'm a ladies man doesn't mean I'm a "male ho" because that is far from the case. I just love women...being around them, conversing with them, and last but not least trying figure them out. It seems I'm a better friend to a woman rather then boyfriend and I'm sure a lot of my ex's would agree. It always starts out good and turns to something bad for me when I deal with relationships..

My main flaw at being in a relationship is TIME. I never seem to give enough time to who ever I'm dating...but in my mind I always think I'm giving them all the time. Nahhh not the case. See I'm into music and I take it real real serious & I hate being bothered when I'm engaged in it so sometimes I seem to ignore my girlfriend. Another flaw is I hate being wrong...lol...but I can accept when I'm wrong and move on with it. Sometimes I can get a little to serious and flash out over things and sometimes I'm not serious enough. Whatever the case is I've come to the conclusion I'm not fully ready to be in a real relationship. I say what I just told you all the time but I always find myself thinking "what if". It gets kind of old chilling with different women all the time especially if the women you hang with have boyfriends. You'll call them up and be like hey want to chill and they reply I can't with my boyfriend right now...and you can't do nothing but respect it.

Now let me clear something up real fast....I don't fuck people's ol ladies on purpose and I say "not" on purpose....because a some of the women I've delt with later down the line I did find out a few had boyfriends. But on another note I would smash a dude ol lady on purpose if she's a good woman and he can't seem to appreciate her. I mean even women say it themselves "if you can't take care of business someone else will". I know what it takes to be a good man...I just have to really want to do it. Did I just confuse y'all? Well I'll explain. I know what women like...I know what women want..but honestly I haven't found a chick I'm willing to bend over backwards for yet but thinking twice on what I just said maybe I did have one in the past and just didn't realize it...O well I never been the type to cry over spilled milk.

Relationships are suppose to be taken seriously and now a days people take them as a game. Men and woman all over jump in and out relationships like they change their boxers, and panties. I want to be happy in a relationship but I need to stop settling for less then what I know is required for me and whoever to work. First off lets start with the looks....most people say they don't matter but they really mean they do. Me personally I feel like as long as I can find something psychically attractive about you we are all good. Now I do have preferences....I like thick women. Not huge woman just thick women...I love thighs, hips, breasts, and ass. I like style, uniqueness, definition, and swag. As far as mind frame I like a well rounded woman. Someone I can talk about everything too...a mind that can expand and grow...not just stuck on what they already know. I like fun women who love to take chances...a woman who will try anything once. A woman who is adventurous, outgoing, and chill. Supportive, and willing to involve herself with my goals.

That kind of goes back to my time problem...maybe if I had a female who would grind with me...come to the studio with me...give her input on the music I make I'd probably want to marry her lol. Don't get me wrong I've had women in my life who fully supported my music but it was from the sideline. I want a woman to get involved. That would be what's up. Speaking on women I've ran into the ones who feel they doing everything right and it was my fault we didn't work...but was it really MY fault or was it both of our faults or simply just YOUR fault? People should start taking signs of compatibility more seriously because I never seem to be able to make a relationship work with my "rival sign". It seems the only thing that ends up happening with me and a Scorpio is sexual tension. We find a few other things in common but mostly its just sex, sex, sex. I love sex but you know if it's going to be a relationship were going to have to vibe on more then just sex and simple interest that probably everyone else in the world enjoys. Shout out to Scorpios by the way because they are FREAKY as hell man...I love the open mind of Scorpios...

Before I get back in another relationship I'm about to just test the waters...see what's out their. Experience more and find out what's the main quality I look for in a woman. If you don't know the MAIN quality you look for in your partner and you jump into a relationship with a stranger you're already setting yourself up for failure. It's this one quality you look for in a person and you know if this person has it you're already in falling for them. Some people know what that quality is and others like me haven't fully found it yet. Finding that quality is not just looks, their job, or the car they drive. It's something so simple... I found out recently that the answer to every question is not always a complicated one. This is a wrap for my first blog though. Make sure you comment, and follow. HOLLA!
-DefinedInDepth